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Accepting No

Does your child have a difficult time accepting "no" for an answer?  Do they begin to yell, cry, and/or throw things when they are told "not now" or "later"?  Do you fear going to the store with them, for a tantrum is likely when you refuse to buy them what they want?  Wish "no" meant "no" and not an hour of bargaining afterwards?  If your child has a difficult time accepting "no" for an answer, you may want to look at changing the way you handle their behavior as well as how you handle your own. 

Many parents struggle to determine if the behavior is in fact "typical."  Even if it was typical, if it not being handled appropriately then typical and quickly become atypical.  Remember, that children do not grow out of things.  They may grow up, but not necessary out of problem behavior unless taught to do otherwise.  Children who are unable to accept denial will often display more extreme behaviors later in life as teenagers and young adults, engaging in stealing and aggression.  However, simple behavior modification strategies can make a world of difference.